Ah, how to manifest love with a specific person. The question on so many people's minds.
And
unrequited love. It really sucks, doesn’t it? You’re madly in love with
someone. They speak and it strikes a chord in your soul.
You
can tell they’re around the corner just by the faintest whiff of their perfume.
You shake hands, and to them, it’s only a handshake, but you? You’re never going
to wash that hand. Ever.
Yet,
certain as you are that they’re the one for you, as far as they’re concerned,
you barely exist.
Bummer.
So you want to know exactly how to manifest love with a specific person? Read on then.
STORYTIME!I once wanted to manifest a specific person too. This person was my ex. Things had ended really badly between us, and I wanted nothing else than to have her back in my arms. I tried everything. Nothing was working out. I became obsessed with her. Looking back now I cringe a bit.
MORE WANTING, LEADS TO MORE WANTING
The
more I wanted her, the further and further away she was. Eventually she changed
numbers, her email, and moved out of state.
Needless
to say I was a wreck. The more I wanted her, the more I wanted her. The more my
universe gave me more reason to keep wanting – because that’s the
vibration I was putting out. Lack.
A LIGHTBULB MOMENT
After months and months of depression and pining, one day, a light bulb went off. I needed to learn to love myself! I needed to give myself the love I felt she should have given me. So one day at a time, I did just that. Over time, I had let go.
IN THE END
I
never got her back. I know, I am not doing a great job of encouraging you
right? Well, guess what? I am now in a relationship which is the best
I’ve ever had! What am I trying to tell you?
NEVER MAKE IT ABOUT ANYTHING OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF
Listen, when it comes to love, money, whatever it is you want, you cannot get what you are not.
That’s
because everything is you, expressed.
Take
a beat. Look around you. Look at your life. Everything you’re seeing,
everything you’re experiencing, is a representation of you. It’s all you!
There
is nothing outside of yourself, so if you lack something, look to yourself.
That
specific person you want to manifest love with … TAKE THEM OFF THE PEDESTAL
If you feel anything like how I did when my ex broke things off with me, you probably only live and breathe this person. Stop. Just stop. Ask yourself what you really, really want. It’s not them. I know, it seems like it’s just them, and nothing else, but that’s not it. Drill down to what you really desire.
YOU WANT TO LOVE AND BE LOVED.
You
want this. The only reason you want them is that you feel when you have
them, you’ll be happy. There’s a shortcut to all of this. Get happy first!
Feel good first! THEN what you want will come.
BUT I WANT TO KNOW HOW TO MANIFEST LOVE WITH A SPECIFIC
PERSON!
Don’t
get me wrong. I’m not saying you can’t have a specific person. Matter of fact,
my buddy Matt just did the exact same thing.
He
and is wife Yvonne had been separated for over a year. But he manifested her
back. The point is, you have to get to the very core of what you desire,
because it might just be that there’s someone much better for you than this
specific person.
I know it’s hard to hear, and even harder to believe, and even harder to hear or imagine. I’ve been there. I know. But you need to get that first. Okay? Now let’s get to the meat of things.
How
To Manifest Love With A Specific Person In 4 Steps
If
you’ve been following the articles on my site for a while, you’ll notice
there’s a common thread running through all the “how-tos.”
Relaxation,
and imagination. These are key for manifesting whatever you desire.
So here’s how to manifest love with somebody in your life…
Choose a scene.
One that implies you and this person are already together. It could be the two of you holding hands, walking down the street. You look down, you see your hands intertwined, and see your shadows on the floor. You hear them say, “I love you.” Whatever you choose, keep it short so you can loop it as often as you need in your head without getting distracted.
Get into a relaxed state.
This could be shortly before you go to bed, or get out of bed. You want to be in that twilight area, in between sleep and wakefulness. You can also do this any other time, just get comfortable and relaxed, as though you were going to take a nap.
Replay your scene in your mind.
Do so with all the feeling you can, both emotion, and sensation. Make it vivid. Enjoy the feeling of it being already done.
Fall asleep feeling thankful you have your
desire.
Or if
you’re doing this in the morning or some other time, just
come out of your imagination with thanks.
There
is another, much simpler way to do this.
The
late, great Neville Goddard employed this method to get married to the love of
his life, and against all odds and his former wife’s refusal for him to get
married to someone else…
He
got the woman of his dreams!
Simply
fall asleep each night as though they were right next to you.
It’s
that simple.
However,
if after reading this article you want something a bit more practical you may
want to check it out this program called Meet Your Sweet.
It’s
a very powerful program that’s helped many people meet the love of their lives,
and it could do the same for you.
BONUS
SCENES!
You
can imagine, anytime you think about it, that you have a ring on your finger.
From them! ( If you want to get married, that is.)
Imagine
a friend looking at you, and saying, “Wow, I’m so happy for you and so-and-so.
You two are so great together!” Or imagine your friend saying, “You and
so-and-so have been together for years! I’m jealous! What’s the secret?”
You
can imagine you and this specific person, many years down the line, sitting
together. You’re both scrollings through pictures on your laptop or something,
from when you were younger.
Happy
pictures of you two on dates. One of you says, “Wow. Look at us. So happy.” The
other replies, “I love you,” as they take your hand in theirs and squeeze it.
The
key to all this is to keep the scenes short and stay in the state of having
your desire fulfilled. When you feel discouraged, don’t go looking for signs your exercise is working. Also, don’t force anything. Really. It’s
already done!
Finally,
stay open. Love might surprise you by coming from an entirely unexpected
person!
And
that’s how to manifest love with a specific person (or someone else).